Father's Day

Father’s Day, 2017

Many Blessings on all of our fathers, living on earth, in purgatory or in heaven! The following two items are appropriate in reflection on fathers and fatherhood, in particular in a culture where they seem somewhat unappreciated.

I. Father of the Year

In June 1941, General Douglas MacArthur was named National Father of the Year. The honor came just after he moved his family to the Philippines to command U.S. Pacific Forces. Pearl Harbor and the fall of the Philippines came within the year. His words upon receiving the award reveal a fatherly heart and priorities.

General macArthur and Son

General Douglas MacArthur and his son, Arthur


By professions I am a soldier and take pride in that fact. But I am prouder – infinitely prouder – to be a father.

A soldier destroys in order to build; the father only builds, never destroys. The one has the potentiality of death; the other embodies creation and life.

And while the hordes of death are mighty, the battalions of life are mightier still. It is my hope that my son, when I am gone, will remember me not from the battle, but in the home repeating with him our simple daily prayer, “Our Father Who Art in Heaven”.

II. A Father’s Prayer

Shortly after the Fall of the Philippines, in the early days of the war, MacArthur expressed his own faith and hopes when he composed the following:

Build me a son, O Lord, who will be strong enough to know when he is weak and brave enough to face himself when he is afraid; one who will be proud and unbending in honest defeat, and humble and gentle in victory.

Build me a son whose wishes will not take the place of deeds; a son who will know Thee—and that to know himself is the foundation stone of knowledge.

Lead him, I pray, not in the path of ease and comfort, but under the stress and spur of difficulties and challenge. Here let him learn to stand up in the storm; here let him learn compassion for those who fail.

Build me a son whose heart will be clear, whose goal will be high; a son who will master himself before he seeks to master other men; one who will reach into the future, yet never forget the past.

And after all these things are his, add, I pray, enough of a sense of humor, so that he may always be serious, yet never take himself too seriously. Give him humility, so that he may always remember the simplicity of true greatness, the open mind of true wisdom, and the weakness of true strength.

Then I, his father will dare to whisper, “I have not lived in vain.”


Upon reading this, Blogger, Scott Williams wrote, “What is your father’s prayer for your children? You’ll probably never achieve the accomplishments of General MacArthur, but when all is said and done, what will make you whisper ‘I have not lived in vain’?”

Mrs. Jean Mac Arthur and Son, Arthur, at the General’s Funeral

Mrs. Jean Mac Arthur and Son, Arthur, at the General’s Funeral


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